Photocopy of an original handwritten tribute to Lavencour Michau, which was delivered at Michau’s funeral Oct. 31, 1901. The author’s name is not known. (Copies courtesy of the Nodaway County, Mo., Historical Society)
Tribute to the memory of Lavencour Michau, Delivered at His Funeral
“Our friend Mr. Michau was born in St. Louis, Mo. Dec. 14, 1825. He was the youngest son of a large family, only two of whom now survive him — Mr. Alfred Michau of St. Joseph and a sister in St. Louis. Mr. Michau came to Maryville in 1856 and since that time, for 45 years, this has been his home.
“In 1863 he was married to Amanda J. Wheeler. Mrs. Michau with their four daughters survive the father and husband. One son Ferdinand K. lived to be only six years of age.
“We mention these facts not for information merely, but that in thinking of the outline of this man’s life we may do him honor.
“As a man among men Mr. Michau has made for himself a record of which his family will always be proud. His life may be described by that one word in which all true men delight — it is honor.
“He had scarcely reached the age of manhood when circumstances through him upon his own resources. Hitherto his training had not fitted him for such trials. But with earnestness of purpose and integrity of life, he faced his future, and wrought out for himself his most honorable business career. This career was marked at every step by industry and regularity of habits.
“When the physicians were called in at the last sickness — they found a body unimpaired by abuse or dissipation. The strong constitution fought manfully with the disease — after a long and busy life the body was strong, weakened only by age.
“During his last days his friends and family noted another mark of his regular business habits — while the poor brain, staggered and overcome by the fever, had lost its consciousness, all the duties of the day were apparently remembered and were gone through with — in thought at their appointed time.
“Our little city and this community owe a debt of gratitude to this man. His successful business talent contributed large in Maryville’s early history toward making it a popular business center, and in these latter days of its life his buildings have perhaps added more than those of any other man, to the beauty and good appearance of our little city. But above all this we are grateful for his example of business habits and integrity thoroughly mastered — says one of our leading business men of him — ‘He had thoroughly learned the art of attending to his own business.’
“Although Mr. Michau’s life was highly successful in its business undertakings, it was yet in his home that life reached its highest and best with him. His death closes 38 years of a most happy and devoted married life. Having retired from business 20 years ago — he was constantly in his home with his dear ones. He was most thoroughly a part of that home. Though naturally a very reticent man with strangers and business associates, in his home he shared his business cares and confidences with his family, and while we who are outside of that circle seem to know little of his characteristics, these his loved ones are quite familiar with his likes and dislikes — his taste and his appreciation.
“As a father, Mr. Michau was always kind and indulgent, thinking ever of the wants and needs, the pleasures and joys of his family. It is one of God’s blessing that he lived to see the daughters he loved grow into womanhood, and while the family circle was darkened by the loss of the only son, the father lived to see and enjoy the companionship of a devoted grandson bearing and giving honor to the same name. This was tender and loving companionship.
“It is useless to say to this fond family on such an occasion as this — ‘Do not mourn’ for the heart demands that. But we would say think upon God’s Blessings — Your Dear One’s life has been spared for a period of more than ‘three score years and ten’ — the Allotted age of man — these last six years have been on borrowed time. All these years have had but a few shadows — it has been a longer and happier period than most families spend together.
“Again we would say learn to enter into the joy which the memory of this life will give you — ‘Recollection is the paradise from which we can not be turned out.’ — These years will be lived over gain and talked over again not in sorrow — but in the full enjoyment of fond memory.
“And finally forget not the God in whom you put your trust. He has blessed you in joy. He will bless you in sorrow. — His blessed name will be doubly precious — His love in your hearts will be the chastening power out of which his bright blessings of character will flow.
“And may God keep and bless you all.”
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